Time sure flys when you're having fun! So much has happened to our
little family in just 2 months!! Lets see if I can remember it all:
The
second month of Maggie's life passed in a blur. She was growing and
changing every day,
to all the mom's out there with rough newborns, each
day gets better. I finally felt like when we hit 2 months, I knew what
to do every time she cried, and I could actually get her settled down
pretty easy..it was great progress. I was back to work part time, and it
was always hard to leave her. I had to commute an hour to and from
work, and I was working 10 hour days on top of that. So of course me and
Maggie would get into a good schedule, and then I would have to go to
work the next day, and not see her for 12 hours, and so the next day we
kinda had to start over with a rhythm and schedule! We were able to do Maggie's blessing on Easter Sunday. It was a perfect day, and so many family and friends came to support us. She looked beautiful in my blessing dress and precious booties made by her grandma Kodra. We had a great day!
Anton was busy
finishing up the semester, and we were talking about summer jobs. He was
going to take a break for school for a little, and was looking to find a
job full time, so that I could stay home with Maggie. He was talking to
some connections we had from when he worked as an RCT (Radiological
Control Tech) before he started school. Nothing was really working out,
and we didn't have the time to worry about it...cause in the beginning
of May we headed to Hawaii for a 2 week vacation with my family!! It was
the graduation trip gift to all the men in my family, as they had all
graduated with something :)
It. Was. A. Blast. Lucky Maggie girl got to
lay on the beach at just 3 months old. Although she wasn't the biggest
fan of sandy beaches, or hot sun, and long travel days in cars, but all
in all we had a great time. I always enjoy vacationing with my family.
On our second day living in paradise, Anton got a random call about a 3
week RCT job in Japan, we talked it over and decided 3 weeks was doable,
and a good way to give us some time, to figure out work long
term....well as things worked out, we were able to figure out the long
term plans pretty soon after, as we were shortly offered a more long
term job after the 3 week job...but it was also in Japan. What a big
move for our family, but after thinking over the pros and cons, we
decided now, with one small baby was the time to take the jump. What an
adventure it would be for us, that we would never be able to do again.
So....boom!! Anton had to leave for Japan the day after we got back from
Hawaii. While he worked away in Japan, me and Maggie and my wonderful
In-Law Family packed up all our belongings into a storage unit. I was so
grateful to have the help, I wouldn't have been able to do it all on my
own. It was definitely hard leaving that family in Utah. There are no
words to express our gratitude for their love and support as they
provided us a home and a family as we welcomed baby Maggie to our little family.
Having a mother in law 10 feet away to help with a tough new born was a
life saver, and I wouldn't have wanted it any other way. They had
created such a special relationship with Maggie, and it was obvious that
Maggie loves them very much!! Ahh so yes, we miss them, thank goodness we have skype! While me and
Maggie waited for our passports to arrive, we took the long drive
(thanks to Jenny's help for flying out and driving home with us, shes
the best sister on this planet) and spent a couple weeks in New Mexico.
It was good to spend some time with my family before we headed off, and
it was nice to not have any schedule to keep....AND spend some time with
my home dawgs Conway and Elle! I love those two kiddos so much. We went
to the pool like every day, and jammed out to music and movement at the
library!:) I also had the privilege of babysitting the two for a few
days while their parents were off camping. It was rough having 3
children all at once, but all in all I think we had a good time. The
kids never cried when they were with me, so I say that was success, Elle
only cried for grandma :) haha obviously im one of their favorites, and
it makes it really easy because they LOVE Maggie. Elle even says
Maggie, ( its soooo cute ahhhuhhh). But Seriously, they, as most kids
are better when
their parents are not around, for example: Conway did not even through a tantrum once.
He was such a big help, and always did what I asked...he's the best at
running to get Maggie's diapers and throwing her dirty ones away. hehe
Elle was great too..she only really liked me when there wasn't any other
adults around...im basically her last choice. haha BUT we survived, I
think everyone had a good time, hopefully the remember that aunt nano is
the total best and rocks etc. Conway told Jenny when she got back that
we did nothing....so thats great! I sure do love those kids though! Then
on my last day before we left, my Grandma and Grandpa Bingham, and Aunt
Andrea made the trip to come see us. It was so fun to have them meet
Maggie before we headed off, such a special moment and memory for me.
They are the best!! Then 2 days before Maggie's 4 month mark we began
our trip to JAPAN!!!!
I didn't get much
sleep that night because we left the house at 3 am to head to
Albuquerque!! I
had put my phone in my purse on vibrate cause I was trying to get some
sleep. Once we made it to the relief route I remembered that I should
text Anton to tell him that I had left and all, and realized that I had
like 20 missed calls from him, after frantically calling him back, I
learned that my flight had been CANCELLED and rescheduled for the next
day! This was not going to work as I need to catch my flight to Tokyo
from LA at 3:45pm. I was freaking out...so I told Anton to call Delta
and make them figure it out so that I was in LA before 3:00. He put on
his angry voice and talked to pretty much every supervisor in their call
center before they finally booked me on a flight with American
Airlines at 6:00am. By this time we were all ready to the airport, so
the plan of
getting some sleep was out the window. We parked about 4:30 and figured
that would be plenty of time to get everything sorted out, I got in line
at American Airways, and the super duper nice ticket lady said that I
needed a piece of paper from Delta saying that they had bought this
flight for me....so I walk over to Delta... whos line is literally out
the door due to their cancelled flight (apparently a flight attendant
was
sick)...so im starting to panic as I wait in line....by the time I get
to the super slow workers up front its already 5:15..they hand me some
old school ticket and I leave...go back to American Airlines....and what
do you think...yuppp, wrong paper! haha so finally the nice helper lady
was like I will go talk to them...she goes and gets the right paper
work (she should have gone in the first place) and then explained that
the flight they put me on was overbooked anyways, and with the time now
being 5:30 I wasn't going to make it...so they next flight she could get
me on was at 12:15...I figured that wasn't to bad because I would get
to LA at 1:15 so plenty of time to get things sorted at the
international terminal. Then she explained that the international
airlines policy was that I could only check on 2 bags...I had 4 with
me....so gag...in the middle of the airport, my dad and I stuffed 4
suitcases
into 2....it was totally chaos, and I had to leave some stuff home.
Since my flight was later, I got to grab some breakfast with my mom and
dad before we said our tearful goodbyes.
I was feeling tired, but excited to get this day over with! WE walked
the
airport multiple times, Maggie took a couple naps, and before we knew
it, it was time to board the plane. We get on the plane with about 50
other passengers, its pretty packed tight. Maggie was a trouper though
and all in all was pretty good. We were sitting in our chair for
probably 30 min with nothing going on when the pilot gets on the
intercom and explains that the engine wont start and we need to deplane.
I'm on the verge of freaking out at this point. We collect our carry on
items and head off the plane...they wont give me my stroller back
because it is under the plane..grrrr. I called my mom in a panic and am
almost sobbing since I know that it
is now 1:30 and there is no way Ill catch my flight to Tokyo!! I then
tried multiple times to call Anton to tell him that I wont make it and
to not come pick me up.....he finally answers and is so angry at the
airlines that I don't need to be haha. Then miracles of miracles the
pilot
comes over the speaker saying the problem has been fixed....hoooray! I
gather all my belongs run to the bathroom while holding a 4 month old
baby....(props to me) and get back on the plane....after getting
everyone
back we don't end up leaving until 2. Meaning we will get to LA at
3:00!!! I'm
freaking out the whole flight, and then we land in the middle of the
tarmac, we have to walk down those old wire ladders, and then I have to
sit and wait for my stroller. It was literally 10 feet away from me but
the
worker dude wanted to have all of the suitcases down before he handed me
the stroller..I was so frustrated since I knew the clock was
ticking. There was this super nice lady that had heard I needed to get
to the internal terminal and said she would walk me....she was seriously
an angel! We had to take a bus to the terminal and then had to run to a
different terminal for international flights. I never did learn her
name, but she was so wonderful, she had a broken hand but helped with
Maggie and holding what she could, I had no problem handing Maggie over
to her when I was so desperate for help! She was awesome! She walked me
to the door of the terminal, and it was 3:15. I wanted to hug her I was
so grateful for her, I would have never figured out where to go in time!
I
frantically ran around looking for the airline that I was supposed to
be taking and finally found them, with no one at the desk to help
me of course...when someone finally showed up they gave me all the paper
work I
needed and then said they would give me an escort and that I would need
to run... sure enough this little old lady takes all my bags holds her
badge over her head and starts busting through security, I ran over so
many people's toes as they waited in line and we hauled through
security!
Once we got through security she very sweetly told me that we needed to
sprint haha...so
we took off and I swear I ran a freakin mile in 4 mins haha.....once we
made it to the gate I just lost it and started sobbing. I was so
grateful that they had held the plane for me (they held it a total of 20
minutes for me)......the workers were so
nice, they all hugged me and said it was fine. They adored Maggie. They
walked me to my seat and I buckled up and we took off, it was that fast.
I was a huge sobbing sweating mess, but I was so glad to be on my way
to Anton. The 11 hour flight was so fast, and Maggie basically slept the
whole time. It was like a 5 star airplane...they were awesome. When we
landed customs and all of that was easy...everyone really loves Maggie
cause she is so alert and responsive. We got all our bags (they all
arrived which was awesome) and made it through all the check points and
then we finally got to see Anton. It was such a happy moment, mostly
because I knew that I was done, I didn't have to deal with the messy
travel anymore, I had made it. Luckily as crazy as the whole day was,
Maggie was so perfect! She was the best part of the day, I can only
imagine how hard it must have been if she was cranky. We were so glad we
had made it safely and all in one piece! :)
The base is
pretty cool..it just looks like really really old Los Alamos... the
buildings are all government old looking (if youre from Los Alamos you
know what im talking about) and then there is a fence around the whole
thing with guards everywhere...totally not weird cause thats what I grew
up with. I always forget that we live in Japan because it looks so
normal, and then I see the fence and the sky scraper Tokyo in the
background. Its been fun living as a family again....except me and
Maggie
just want to sleep, we are so jet lagged. Im sure we will adjust soon.
We are all unpacked and settled.
So thats been our past few
months! so much has changed...and now we are living a crazy new
adventure. Maggie is so fun, she is getting quite the personality. She
can go from 0 to 60 in about 2 seconds...she always gets the hiccups
when she laughs because she doesn't know how to breathe and laugh at the
same time (not sure who she got that from haha cough cough haha). She
loves her daddy, being apart for 5 weeks didn't skip a beat with her,
she knew exactly who he was, and enjoys playing toys with him the most.
She was starting to have favorites when we were living in New
Mexico...she seems to only want to eat and sleep when i'm the one
holding her of course. She is quick to smile and hardly blinks. All of
the Japanese people enjoy talking to her, they communicate the way they
can, and I'm sure they are basically saying that she is the cutest thing
on this planet...cause she totally is! :) (thats the biggest thing ive
notice about being in Japan compared to America....everyone notices
Maggie and makes it a point to talk to her and gawk at her
adorableness!) She is drinking out of a sippy cup, (her choice not mine,
she loves to be in control of everything she puts in her mouth). She
tries with all her might to sit up, but hasn't got the balance part down
yet. Im sure she will have that mastered in a couple weeks. She is still tiny as ever, but thanks to Grandma Christensen insisting I feed her more, she kinda has a roll on her leg...haha shes just a really petite girl!! She loves
all technology, so she mostly behaves while me skype our family in the
states...most days haha. I can tell that she really misses her best
friends Conway and Elle, she loved to just watch them (they were the
best fake puppies on this planet) and now she just has me and Anton to
look at so obviously she's bored. haha We are beginning the sleep
training and its an adjustment, but she sleeps great when it works. :)
Ok well I'm exhuasted....Japan is 15 hours ahead of Utah and New Mexico, in case you were wondering :)
So
grateful we are together and living the life. We love and miss you all
so much!! Stay posted for more about our Japanese life!!
Here's some pictures from our adventures:
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| Maggie's Blessing Day! |
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| Maggie's 2 month photo! |
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| Maggie's passport photo!! hehe |
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| yay for dadddy!!! |
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| all sitting up!!! |
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| Maggie's 3 months!! |
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| And this is Maggie...Twins right?? |
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| This is Anton |
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| Sippy Cup Drinker! |
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| NAF Atsugi Base...our Home! |
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| Airport day! |
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| Grandma And Grandpa Bingham |
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| Best Friends!!! |
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| "Nano take my picture" |
I'm so happy Maggie was a good girl while you traveled! What a fun adventure.... Can't wait to see more pictures!
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